chariot lance - main weapon
estoc (optional) - good for getting around shields
composite bow (optional) - decent ranged option
dragonrider greatshield - high stability and reduction makes it perfect for blocking and attacking at the same time while being lighter than heavier greatshields
rings - warriors ring+2, third dragon ring, chloranthy ring+2, ring of blades+2
warmth, for the bridge.
hide behind your shield while striking with the chariot lance, remember to roll away when your stamina gets low. chase down retreating enemies with your charge attack. switch to the estoc when your opponent hides behind his own shield. use the bow to harass ranged opponents.