Use basicaly spell and suprise any monster with your big sword and big shield
Greatsword, Fume ultra greatsword , Dragonrider greatshield and staff of wisdom
Crown of the old iron king, has you like for the rest
soul spear, crystal soul spear, soul greatsword, soul geysers, homing crystal soulmass,
the ring is a very personal choice , and its really not for PvP.